Tai Cheng Wu

In Loving Memory of Mr. Wu Tai Cheng

Mr. Wu Tai Cheng, born in Shunde, Guangdong, China, on March 23, 1936, passed away peacefully on February 16, 2025, at the age of 88.

Mr. Wu was the fourth child in his family, born into a lineage that transitioned from politics to commerce. From a young age, he demonstrated an exceptional intellect and a love for learning. His talents extended beyond academics, with a keen interest in physical pursuits. He was known for his humor, perseverance, and strong moral character—traits that defined him as a true scholar.

His childhood was shaped by the hardships of war-torn years, and the political turbulence of his youth tested his values. Despite the challenges, he remained steadfast in his beliefs, with his bright eyes and warm, confident smile reflecting his unwavering spirit.

In 1958, he moved from southern China to the northeast, where he met and married a compassionate and talented doctor. Together, they raised three daughters and a son, and their love blossomed into a legacy that continues through their twelve grandchildren.

As a design engineer, Mr. Wu was deeply passionate about his profession. Even as Alzheimer’s slowly took its toll on him, he continued to sketch intricate designs, finding joy in his work. He took immense pride in his contributions to society and his career, which were a testament to his dedication and expertise.

His love for his family was paramount. To provide better opportunities for his children, he made the selfless decision to leave behind his career and move abroad. His wisdom, diligence, and unwavering love became a beacon for his children and grandchildren, creating a lasting legacy of resilience and integrity.

In the memories of his children, Mr. Wu is remembered as a devoted and disciplined father—always striving to create a brighter future for his family. He taught his children valuable life lessons, such as the importance of hard work, honesty, and kindness. His sincerity, thrift, and commitment to family created countless warm, happy memories, even during times of scarcity.

Over the past ten months, we witnessed his gradual decline. We are grateful for the peacefulness of his passing, without prolonged suffering. His life journey is now complete, and we know he would want us to honor him with strength and gratitude, not sorrow.

We are comforted in knowing that he left this world with dignity, embarking on a new journey of freedom, light, and reunion with loved ones who passed before him.

“Whether or not there is an afterlife, and regardless of whether we have the chance to meet again, we want to say to you, Father, Grandfather—thank you for giving us life, for raising us, and for dedicating everything you had to us. We will never forget you. May you find pure, carefree happiness in heaven, free from the burdens of the past. We will always remember and love you.”

致悼吳泰程先生
吳泰程先生，祖籍中國廣東順德，家中排行第四，生於1936年3月23日，逝於2025年2月16日，享年88歲。祖輩棄政從商，家族傳承卓越。他自幼愛好廣泛，16岁便就读大学，成为未来的设计工程师，他在大学就读期间，展現出文體兼修的才華，以幽默的談吐和積極向上的友善之心，成為典型的知識份子。

近九十年的一生，銘刻著時代的印記。他的童年在戰火紛飛的歲月中度過，深深烙印於心。特殊年代的政治波折，讓這位耿直不阿、專心學問的讀書人歷經了許多坎坷，然而他始終未曾妥協。他的雙眼永遠閃爍著智慧的光芒，溫暖的笑容中蘊含著無盡的信心與希望。

1958年，作為設計工程師的他，從南方移居至東北，邂逅了一位才華與品德兼備的女醫生。兩人相愛相知，共同攜手，並育有三女一子，如今，枝散葉已有十二位孫輩。

作為一名資深工程師，他畢生保持著對專業的赤誠。即使在阿爾茨海默症日漸加重的时日裏，仍時常執筆繪製精美的設計概念圖，那些流暢的線條裏，依稀可見他當年投身設計的熱情身影，仿佛又回到了人生中那些忘我岁月。他為自己從事的職業感到驕傲，也為多年對社會的貢獻感到自豪。

他對家庭的愛與奉獻，遠超過一切。為了給子女們創造更好的生活條件，他毅然放棄了自己熱愛的事業，選擇遠赴海外。他的勤奮、智慧與努力，不僅成為子女們效法的榜樣，同时也贏得了家人们深深的敬佩和愛戴，這份愛與智慧也在他的孫輩們之間傳承。

在孩子们童年的記憶裏，他總是竭盡所能拼搏，用雙手為家人們托舉起未來的希望。 他是一个做事一丝不苟的父亲，认真、负责、严格、勤奋，是真正的父亲典范。他教孩子们骑自行车、解数学题、玩游戏，讲故事，常与孩子们谈论做事的原则和做人的道理…… 

他真诚、节俭，守信、更给孩子们的童年时光，留下许许多多美好且快乐的记忆。即使在那段物质极度匮乏的年代，他也已竭尽全力使他的孩子们能有个健康愉快的童年。

生老病死是人生的必經之路，從生命凋謝到终止仅用了10個半月。如今他走完了他的人生全旅程，我們覺得他是不希望我們傷心，不要我们為他難過。他要潇洒、而又有尊严的离开，去一個无病痛，可以自主、自由自在、光明无限的地方，并能与那边的亲人、爱人、朋友们团聚…… 我們都感恩他走的這麼平靜，沒有太多的痛苦，也沒有在醫院里慢長的插管和賴活著的過程。

無論來世是否存在，也無論我們是否還有機會再見，請允許我們對您說：「父親（祖父），感謝您賜予我們生命，感謝您養育我們，感謝您為我們傾盡所有。您的一切付出，我們將永遠銘記。願您在天堂中忘卻童年時的恐懼與人生的艱難，享受無憂無慮的純粹快樂。

我們將永遠記得並愛您。」

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